Why pray to saints? Can’t you pray for yourself? Doesn’t Jesus have your back? What is the difference between praying to Mary and praying to Jesus?
See Catholic Catechism, article #954-962
In order to better understand this practice, one needs to really understand what the Church means by “communion of saints.” For Catholics, “communion” is extremely important – it is something uniquely sets us apart from other Christian churches. Lumen Gentium, a document that came out of the 1960’s Second Vatican Council, says this: “All of us, however, in varying degrees and in different ways share in the same charity towards God and our neighbors, and we all sing the one hymn of glory to our God. All, indeed, who are of Christ and who have his Spirit form one Church and in Christ cleave together.”
Simply stated, we believe that we are intrinsically connected to one another and that what affects one member has an effect on the whole body. If one member has a need, suffering, joyful, or sorrowful, the whole community is affected and joins that member in their prayers. This connection doesn’t cease when a person dies, or if they move to another location, are homebound, etc. Indeed, they are mystically connected and join in the Church’s unending song of praise. St. Therese of Liseux understood this very well when she said “I want to spend my heaven in doing good on earth.” St. Dominic, on his deathbed said “Do not weep, for I shall be more useful to you after my death and I shall help you then more effectively than during my life.” Even in heaven, the blessed are concerned for the needs of the earthly church and seek to assist their brothers and sisters in Christ.
Here are some basic facts about praying:
1. Catholics pray to Jesus directly all the time; there is nothing in our teaching that says we may not pray directly to Jesus. We fully believe that Jesus hears and answers our prayers. The tradition of praying to Mary and/or praying to the saints in no way diminishes or negates our ability to pray to Jesus directly. There are simply times when we feel a need or desire to pray to Mary or one of the saints. Sometimes it is fitting, such as a saint’s feast day or a cause that was known to be close to their heart while they were on earth. Neither Mary nor the saints answer on their own accord; they take our prayers to God, asking on our behalf as a good that they desire for us. Again, none of this negates our ability to pray to God directly.
Praying to the saints has its roots in Scripture and Tradition. We believe that Mary, and the Saints act not by their own powers, but intercede for us to God. All power is given from God alone, for his glory, for his purpose. A true saint would not want the glory to themselves; in their goodness, they would want all glory to go to God. Yet, intercessory prayer to the saints isn’t just in reference to the saints in heaven, but the saints here on earth with us now. The concern that binds the community is empathy; actually placing ourselves in the needs and joys of others. Compassion means “to suffer with.” When we ask a friend or family member to pray for us/or with us, we are asking them to take part in our need. It isn’t that one cannot pray on their own, although at times a person may not be able to do so, but more that the communal reality of sharing the whole of our human experience is occurring.
2. Intercessory prayer can include praying to the Saints in heaven and the saints on earth (our friends & family). Below are a few examples from Scripture:
Rev 5, 8; 8, 4: “The twenty-four elders fell down before the Lamb, having … golden bowls full of incense, which are the prayers of the saints…and with the prayers of the saints there went up before God from the angel’s hand the smoke of the incense.”
Gn 18:20-32: Abraham begs God to spare Sodom and Gomorrah if a few good people live there.
Gn 17:1-14: God makes a covenant with Abraham, and includes all his tribe in the covenant.
Rom 14:7-9: We live and die in community, and Jesus is Lord of the living and the dead.
Rom 15:30-32: Paul asks the Roman Christians to pray in love for his deliverance from threats
Jas: 5:16-20: Pray for each other; the prayer of a holy person is especially effective; …we save our own souls as well and atone for sins.
Acts 7:60: As Stephen is being stoned to death, he cries out, “Lord, do not hold this against them (his assailants)” and falls asleep.
Catechism #2635: “Since Abraham, intercession – asking on behalf of another – has been characteristic of a heart attuned to God’s mercy. In the age of the Church, Christian intercession participates in Christ’s, as an expression of the communion of saints. In intercession, he who prays looks “not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others,” even to the point of praying for those who do him harm.
3. See Catechism # 964-975: The difference between praying to Mary and praying to Jesus is that Mary is an intercessor on our behalf, but a very special one who is worthy of a certain kind of devotion. We honor her with the title “Mother of God.”. We believe that her prayers on our behalf are very powerful, yet she herself does not claim or possess the power to grant our requests. We pray to Mary to ask for her motherly guidance in our lives, since she is the Mother of the Church (the Body of Christ). We praise her for her “fiat” (yes!), for her humility, trust, love, and goodness. This is praise that is fitting for her role. We express our love to her as our Mother. The Catechism states “This very special devotion differs essentially from the adoration which is given to the incarnate Word and equally to the Father and the Holy Spirit, and greatly fosters this adoration.” (#971)
When we pray to Jesus, we are asking on our own or praising/worshipping him directly. Catholics do this regularly in the Mass and other prayers, personal and public. It is part of our relationship with him, as our brother and savior. He is the head of the Church; we are the body. We must pray to Jesus! We must be intimate with him, who loves us so much. To Jesus we give the worship, honor, glory, and ultimate gift of our very self. To Jesus we give our very best; all that we have, all that we are. If we are to be Christ to the world, we must have him in our hearts and on our minds. We cannot achieve that intimacy or authenticity without prayer. Mary would not want us to pray to her the way we pray to her Son; it would be completely against her whole mission, which is to point the way to her son and say “do as he tells you.”
How do we balance the love for Jesus and our love for Mary, our mother? In his providence, when he entrusted John, his beloved disciple to Mary, he entrusted us to her as well (and vice-versa). It is one of the last loving acts he did before his final act of ultimate love. We can never underestimate the love that Jesus had for us in the most painful moments of his life. We look to Mary to learn how to better love him. In the Catholic imagination, we wonder how much he must love his mother, who knew nothing about the life she was going to have as his mother, and yet, in complete trust in the Father, she simply said “yes!” How many times did she say yes, not fully understanding or knowing what it would cost her? We’ll never know, but Jesus does.